SPECIAL REPORT: How to Be Confident and Assertive when Dealing with People... and Create the Success You Want!

You're Stronger Than You Know

How To Tap Into Your True Power To
Be More Confident, Assertive And
Effective With People

 

Eliminate Your Anxiety, Frustration and Stress When Dealing with People... Even the Most Difficult People... and Gain the Cooperation, Respect and Results You Want. Learn How to Powerfully and Positively Influence Your Employees, Coworkers, Boss, Family Members and Others With This New Personal Success System!

 

Now YOU Can Learn the Secret of Achieving Powerful Positive Results With People Using These Highly Effective Mental and Interpersonal Skills...

 

It's ALL Covered In The SPECIAL REPORT
You're About To Read Below...

Monday 10:36am

From the Desk of Dr Mark Lauderdale,

Psychiatrist and Human Resource Consultant

 

Dear Internet Friend,

 

Do you experience anger, anxiety or stress when communicating with people in the workplace or at home?

Would you like to be able to influence people and gain their cooperation and support?

Are you...

Do you wish that you could be more assertive and confident when dealing with people, especially difficult people?

Well, you're not alone!

90% of those who deal with
difficult people FAIL to get positive results!
And I'm going to tell you WHY...

The problem is that dealing with people effectively is often personally difficult and emotionally challenging. People and interpersonal issues OFTEN trigger negative emotions in us such as anxiety, frustration and stress. And it's even worse if you're not confident dealing with people or find it hard to be assertive.

People, especially difficult people, are really good at PUSHING OUR BUTTONS!

When your stress emotions are triggered, you may...

• get angry at the difficult person,

• simmer in frustration within yourself,

• boil over at your loved ones,

• stew or stress about your difficult situation,

• lose sleep, which makes you even more irritable,

• try to avoid the person,

• become embroiled in a conflict with them,

• become less productive,

• probably make bad decisions and poor choices.

In fact,

"If there is ONE skill in life that guarantees
success in life, it's the ability to be confident,
assertive and effective with people."

The most successful people in business aren't the ones who possess special skills or knowledge. They're the ones who can confidently communicate with people and arouse in them a spirit of cooperation... whether it's an employee, a boss, a coworker, a customer, a client in your business or a business partner.

You may have good ideas, but if you can't enlist the support and willingness of others, those ideas aren't going to be accepted or acted upon, no matter who you're dealing with.

You may want a better relationship or a less stressful work environment, but if you can't resolve conflicts and issues with people successfully, you will never truly achieve the positive results you want.

Good people skills produce good results... in any walk of life.

A Lifetime of Experience Dealing With People

People are unpredictable, they are stressed, they can be self-centered or have bad habits and they may have difficult personalities.

Believe me, I know from experience! My name is Dr Mark Lauderdale, a psychiatrist and personal effectiveness coach. I've been helping others deal with difficult people and interpersonal problems for over 30 years.   And I've been through my share of relationship issues, too.   I've found that many people ask me how to deal with interpersonal problems or difficult people assertively. But when I do, they often find it hard to follow through with advice. People often find the relationship “rules” impossible to recall when dealing with people.

Mark Lauderdale MD FRCPC Assertiveness Coach

And yet wherever you turn nowadays, there's always someone giving you advice on how to deal with people problems, whether it's friends, magazines, books, tapes, or an "expert" on TV!

After years of experience I realized the COLD HARD TRUTH about why we have so much difficulty achieving positive results when dealing with people.

The reason is...

 

Your automatic unconscious reactions
STOP you from being confident and successful!

That's right! I've learned that no matter how much information you have and no matter how much you know about dealing with people, if you try to deal with people while feeling even slightly angry, afraid, unhappy or stressed, you will always AUTOMATICALLY do the wrong thing!

If you say or do anything from a negative emotion, you will always have a negative outcome in the end ...Even if you have good intentions in the first place ...And even if your emotions are only momentary.

Here's the science behind why you've failed to get results so far...

The reason that people FEEL difficult to deal with is precisely because they trigger our negative emotions. In other words, they "push our buttons" ...even momentarily.

When someone pushes our buttons they are touching a sensitive spot in us, which triggers a negative emotional reaction. The result is the "fight or flight response" - we either feel angry and annoyed at the person or we want to escape and avoid them.

We can also have a "freeze" response, which is often experienced as a momentary lack of confidence or an inability to be assertive.

These reactions are instinctual and automatic self-preservation responses, which are deeply programmed within your psyche.

Numerous psychological studies have shown that the stress emotions, such as anger, frustration, anxiety or fear, interfere with your performance. In other words, your negative emotions actually interfere with your ability to solve problems and your ability to show assertive behavior.

Most people can understand this when the emotion is extremely intense... Just think about how "stage fright" affects someone's performance. But what most people don't fully appreciate is that even BRIEF negative emotions cause us to be ineffective, too.

But it gets even WORSE!

These momentary emotions cause you to say things that you wish you hadn't said, or make impulsive decisions that you later regret.

Then, your negative reactions, even small ones, trigger negative emotions in the other person! And in the exact same way, the person you are dealing with reacts negatively as well.

It all develops into a nice little vicious cycle that I call, "The Difficult People Tango".

Sound familiar? Watch for it. You'll see it in the way people react to someone who is being difficult.

But now for the good news...

You DON'T have to be caught in your unconscious programmed responses to people any longer...

...and it all starts with this one simple concept!

There is a hidden source of power within you.

Within each of us there is a secret reserve of creativity, wisdom and power that can come to your aid, if you know how to tap into it.

I became aware of this phenomenon during my years of work using clinical hypnosis with my patients. It always amazed me to see the things that people were capable of doing in hypnosis... things they had NO IDEA could ever be possible!

This hidden power can also appear in times of crisis. For example, Bob, a friend of mine, fell off the ferry into the ocean without anyone seeing him. Nearly drowning, he heard a calm clear voice speak to him, "300 strokes, Bob... 300 strokes". Bob miraculously found reserves of strength from within to swim over 8 1/2 hours throughout the night until he was eventually rescued the next morning!

I experienced the phenomenon myself when I was struggling with a difficult relationship issue. Using a particular therapy technique on myself, I experienced a sudden change... a feeling of calm came over me... followed by a feeling of strength welling up from within!

I had discovered how to tap into my subconscious reservoir of strength and confidence in the face of a difficult interpersonal issue.

These sudden experiences of creativity, strength and confidence are what I called the "Wellspring Phenomenon".

So that got me thinking...

What If There Was a Way to Use This Phenomenon
of the Mind to Help Others Succeed with People?!

Once I recognized the importance of the Wellspring Phenomenon, I wanted to see if it could help others deal with difficult people and stressful situations more effectively, too.

So, I decided to see what would happen if I blended together as many personal empowerment methods and success strategies as possible for dealing with people and getting results.

I worked on it for over 5 years through 58 revisions to develop a system that would consistently generate strength, confidence and assertiveness.

You see, the secret lies in a step-by-step "mental programming" sequence using specific techniques that change every single one of your mind's limiting beliefs and stress reactions into empowered proactive solutions.

By using this "connect-the-dots" path to personal power (the key to influencing people and gaining their willing cooperation) I found that my clients were able to create positive changes in ALL KINDS of problem situations with people.

In fact, I broke the entire process down into what I call...

The "Recipe For Success With People"

The various strategies that I incorporated into the process included goal setting, hypnosis techniques, mental rehearsal, motivational techniques, cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), neurolinguistic programming (NLP), eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), stress management techniques, affirmations and several other personal success and interpersonal strategies.

I blended these powerful techniques together into a unique step-by-step process that produced amazing results!

I called it "The Wellspring Method".

Not only did it help ME deal with my life challenges easier, but when I used it in my office, my clients LOVED the rapid results!

I now use the Wellspring Method in my office every day to help people deal with ALL KINDS of difficult people and interpersonal issues with confidence and assertiveness. They find that positive changes happen in their lives FAR more rapidly than with other approaches.
  

The Controversial, Never-Before-Discovered Secret
That Will Change the Way You Look at
Dealing with People... FOREVER!

Here's how it works...

Many times we actually cause things to happen that we DON'T want simply because the idea was born on the inside out of fear or frustration or out of limiting beliefs that we took on somewhere along the way.

The key is to start by purposely shifting your inner reality FIRST into the perceptions, beliefs and confidence that will lead to success with people (well actually, success with ANYTHING).

Once you accomplish this, things will start to change in your life, not only because of your conscious purposeful actions, but also AUTOMATICALLY as a result of your new unconscious attitudes.

With the negative emotions out of the way, you'll then be free to see EXACTLY how you're going to deal with SPECIFIC situations and achieve SPECIFIC goals with people.

The end result will be assertiveness and confidence because you'll know deep inside of you that you'll be able to handle any situation well.

Just think about the NEXT time you're dealing with a difficult situation... Do you think you'll be more successful if you're feeling anxious and stressed? ...or strong and confident?

The answer is kind of OBVIOUS isn't it?

But, if you just TRY to feel confident... it won't work!

If you just TRY to be assertive... it won't work!

If you try to remember ADVICE from a book, tape or seminar that told you what to say or do... it won't work!

But don't worry!

It took me several years of research, experimentation and fine-tuning, but I finally created the exact step-by-step process that will allow YOU to gain the master controls for confidence and assertiveness when dealing with people, even difficult people!...

The Secret to Dealing with People and Problems

Because this "Recipe For Success With People " has been so successful with clients in my office, I decided to reveal to the general public, to people like you... ...although therapists, counselors, coaches and human resource administrators will find it extremely valuable, too... ...the exact step-by-step formula to rapidly tap into your personal power, turn on your problem-solving ability and confidently create RESULTS YOU WANT with people!

 

But FIRST... Hear What These
Confident and Successful People Are
Saying About This New Program...

""Hello Dr Mark! Thank you so much for providing this wonderful method for overcoming problems! I AM a problem solver. But some of my issues were so frustrating I just wanted to bury my head in the sand ...but I knew that wouldn't help, but nothing anyone suggested felt right for me. I tried time and again to set goals to deal with my issues but I consistently had the same poor results. Using the Wellspring Method actually DID help me to tap into my personal power and find my own unique solutions. This came at a time in my life, when I am poised for exponential personal and professional growth. I will keep you abreast of my progress as my miraculous life unfolds. Warmest regards," — Tamara Giles Supply Management

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Discover Strategies for Dealing with Stressful Situations that REALLY Work!

"I have been waiting for a special moment to write about how your book and CDs have help me. My life changed completely. I am more at peace and getting better each day at feeling comfortable when I have to express myself. The practice of picturing situations, even though you are not in that situation at that moment, have helped me tremendously. My brain worked 24/7 about things that had no meaning or little importance. But now I don't think too much. I go to sleep with a clear mind. My stomach feels better, and I am less depressed. I strongly recommend this book and specially the CDs. I have my kids and husband listening to them with me and my husband reading the book. ...and like we say in Spanish....Muchas Gracias!!!!!!!!" — Esmeralda Cantas Customer Service Representative

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"He was able to create a powerful positive change within his family."

Before... “Every time that I was about to talk to my son I could feel darkening storm clouds well up within me, dreading what was about to unfold. I knew exactly how I was going to act and exactly how defensive he was going to get. We both seemed to be stuck in this well worn rut.” After using the Wellspring system... “To my surprise, I found that using the wellspring phrase technique took us in a new direction. Before approaching my son I would refresh my feelings and it felt like someone had flipped a switch. My attitude was now focused on problem solving, I didn’t own his behaviour, I didn’t have an attitude, and I can say that we’ve started a new chapter in our relationship.” — Trevor Barnes Senior Engineering Advisor

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Eliminate Your Anxiety Around People...

"At my work I suffer from no social anxiety when dealing with customers, literally none at all! I have a little bit of anxiety when I'm talking to the other employees about personal things, but that is fading as I get to know them better.   In fact, I have one pretty good friend at work - and she's a girl! - who I work with on a fairly regular basis. Having someone to joke around with certainly makes the shifts go faster." — Jake Smalley Student

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She Actually ENJOYED Being Assertive With Her Employee!

Before... Jill was the manager of a hair salon and spa who was worrying for weeks about how to confront an employee regarding some inappropriate behavior at work. She didn't quite know how to bring up the issue and was concerned that the person might get upset or even quit.

After using my strategies... Jill remarked, “Using this method really helped me work through the problem without any stress. I feel strong and confident!” and she went on to easily obtain her employee's agreement to make the changes she wanted - during a casual conversation over lunch. A big confrontation never even took place! — Jill Neil Manager

The really GREAT thing is that many of these people only took a few short hours to to create these dramatic changes! Remember, this isn’t just a collection of tips and advice. It’s a step-by-step formula, a tried and tested system, that you can use to solve all sorts of relationship dilemmas.
	Click 'play' to begin.

 

Do You Think The Wellspring Method Is JUST For Dealing With People At Work? THINK AGAIN!

"I was really taken aback at the sense of freedom and expansion I felt! Usually when a situation has come up in the past with my Mom I'd immediately feel the closing in my chest and closing in my abdomen.   What was amazing to me through the strength and confidence process was that even in visualizing and in feeling that scenario, there was the sense of expansion. This real feeling of freedom within myself was incredible. Thank you." — Anne Career Coach

This Teacher Learned to Handle a Difficult New School Administrator…

“Thank you so much for introducing me to the Wellspring Method. This method of dealing with stress is both enlightening and successful. Listening at my own pace enabled me to rationally understand my stress attacks and to find alternative outcomes. Your program not only gave me a fine sense of self-worth, but also made me feel more confident than I have in a long time.”   — Chris Whittaker Teacher

 

You'll Get Every Single Detail Of This
Proven Step-By-Step Process...

In This Unique Problem-Solving
Success-With-People System!

3 Powerful CDs plus a Demonstration DVD
	I recorded the Wellspring Method as a step-by-step problem solver that you can use anytime the need arises.   I'll guide you to the solutions and the confidence you'll need to deal with ANY kind of difficult people situation successfully!   A Step-By-Step Custom Tailored Process So Simple... Just Let My Voice Guide You!

This is a personalized problem-solving system for creating results you want with people. No complicated strategies to learn, no rules to remember and no lengthy training involved!

  

Just plug in your problem situation or interpersonal goal at the beginning and move through the process to arrive at your plan of action feeling CALM, CONFIDENT and ASSERTIVE by the end.

CD1: The Wellspring Phenomenon - Learn How to Channel Your Subconscious Mind's Amazing Power to Overcome Obstacles   If you're feeling frustrated or stressed about the difficult people or obstacles in your life, this CD will inspire and motivate you!   You'll discover...
	•	The fascinating experimental research that reveals how stress emotions actually impair your ability to think! ...and cause you to lose abilities that you had previously learned ...and what you can do about it!
	•	The amazing story of the man who fell off the ferry and experienced the wellspring phenomenon... Hear how he overcame his panic and survived in the ocean without a life jacket for over 8 hours!
	•	The 4 basic steps required to achieve a positive outcome with ANY stressful situation in your life!
You'll feel inspired to deal with people or problems confidently and assertively -- without that burdened feeling -- after you've listened to this recording!

CD2: The Wellspring Method - Shift Out of Anger, Anxiety and Stress into Strength and Confidence When Dealing with People or Stressful Situations!
If you feel frustrated, overwhelmed or unsure of how to deal with a stressful situation or a difficult person, I'll take you through the exact steps to resolve your specific situation effectively and create the results you want! I'll show you how to...
	•	Target the exact behavior that is triggering your anxiety, anger, frustration or stress,
	•	Construct your goal the RIGHT way in order to activate your subconscious mind to achieve the outcome you truly want,
	•	De-stress and deactivate your emotions triggered by difficult people so they can't push your buttons any longer,
	•	Measure your level of stress and watch it literally melt away during the process! As you use the method multiple times, it changes you into a more proactive, positive-minded and confident person!
	•	Uncover the perfect opportunity within ANY problem situation to generate a positive change,
	•	Mentally rehearse scenarios with difficult people to develop your inner road map for achieving the outcome YOU WANT in any given situation,
	•	Build your confidence and develop your assertiveness while remaining calm, cool and collected with difficult people and problem situations,
	•	Tap into your hidden reserve of wisdom, creativity and ability to solve problems to achieve your personal goals,
	•	Program yourself for success! Generate intense motivation, creative solutions and power you never knew you had!
These powerful problem-solving confidence-building tools will give you "the right stuff" to succeed with people throughout your life!

CD3: Future Visioning - Learn How to Powerfully Create Results You Want
This CD helps you become clear about the outcome you want... because it’s not going to happen by accident! You'll learn...
	•	The relaxing, yet powerful, effect of listening to the ocean waves as you stroll along the beach reflecting upon the way you'd like things to be... in this rejuvenating guided meditation,
	•	My voice will guide you as you envision things so clearly that it feels like you're stepping into and actually experiencing the future you desire... and how this activates your subconscious mind (which is something that simple goal-setting can NEVER do).
	•	A weekly procedure for identifying the single most important next step for the coming week that will have the biggest positive effect towards achieving your goal,
Once you've stepped into the future you desire and created your inner roadmap for success, the people, events and opportunities you need will be drawn towards you like a magnet!

31-Page Help Manual and Guidelines
	This useful resource manual gives you a detailed description of how the program works with detailed flow diagrams so you can see a visual overview of the Wellspring Method process. It provides you with guidelines that will show you how to use the process most effectively and experience the greatest success with people.

There's also an extensive Help Section with Frequently Asked Questions that will help you quickly correct any problems you may encounter during the process ...and there's lots of additional information and examples to help you achieve the result you want

Demonstration DVD: Being Assertive With People
		Watch as Jill solves a problem with her employees to create a more harmonious workplace in just one hour! This live unrehearsed video demonstrates how the Wellspring Method can help you become more assertive and create positive changes with the people in YOUR life.
	The sample video on this page is just a brief excerpt of the full 35 minute DVD, which demonstrates all of the steps in the Wellspring Method and it's powerful confidence-building effect with Jill, Dre, Anne and Lynn.

 

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Other Books, Articles, Tapes or Teleseminars
DON'T Produce REAL CHANGE When You're
Trying to Build Your Confidence With People!

They CAN'T And Here's WHY...

These "information" products focus on giving you advice on dealing with people, but ignore the extreme importance of your own sensitive spots and stress reactions.

 

I've found that many people just want someone to TELL them how to deal with a difficult person. But after they receive that advice, they usually find it hard to follow through and turn it into constructive action simply because their emotions get in the way.

 

In fact, I've discovered that providing information or "advice" alone usually doesn't translate into positive action or successful results.

 

In other words, knowing what you SHOULD do about an interpersonal problem is simply NOT ENOUGH to solve the problem!

This is because advice or information alone can NEVER give you the inner feeling of confidence and assertiveness you MUST HAVE in order to deal with people successfully.

Furthermore, advice is usually much too general to address your SPECIFIC situation or too weak to really change your inner beliefs about people, especially if your situation is loaded with anxiety, frustration or stress.

Someone telling you things you SHOULD do might be interesting, but it's NOT going to change your habitual behaviors, reactions and emotions (which are undermining your success).

The ONLY way to to generate the confidence and assertiveness you need to be TRULY successful with people is through a shift on the inside, to FREE you from anxiety, frustration and stress and tap into your personal strength and power.

This could be one of the smartest and
most VALUABLE investments you ever make
in your interpersonal skills

Unfortunately, personal coaching or counseling or seminars to help you change your anxiety or stress reactions and improve your people skills are very expensive.

A single teleseminar can cost you $100, while a live stress management course or difficult people seminar might run $500 to $1000 or more!

A professional coach or counselor may cost from $50 to $200 per HOUR to help you succeed with just ONE problem.

If I took you on as an individual client and met with you once a week for just 6 weeks at my normal rate of $200 per hour, it would cost you a whopping $1200!
  

But I'll let you in on a secret...

For my clients who want to be more confident and assertive in dealing with people, I actually take them through this exact same program in my office with just a few minor changes for some people (and my waiting list is 6 months long at this moment!).

In fact, I often use these CDs in my office as I help them go through the process!

I have sold this program in the past for $149, but for a limited time during this market test, you can own this interactive success-with-people system for only $97.

Now I realize this was a lot of information to take in, so let me summarize it for you...

Take my advice... Don't spend even one more day with the stress of your difficult situation hanging over you because ANXIETY, ANGER and STRESS are EXPENSIVE emotions.

Lack of confidence and unassertiveness with interpersonal issues cause you to DO things that you regret later! They rob your time and they waste your money - through lost productivity, wasted energy, mistakes, conflicts, lack of sleep, lack of focus, ineffectiveness at work and poor relationships at home.

Gain the confidence and assertiveness you need to influence people and create the positive results you want with the Shrink in a Box Success With People System.

 

I guarantee it 100%...

 

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