Do you feel like this around someone in YOUR life?

• I hate that they always need to be right!
• I tend to feel inferior or less capable in my own life (even though I KNOW I am not),
• I get tired of hearing their ramblings about all of their accomplishment […]

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Dealing with difficult people may seem like the LAST thing you’d ever want to do in your life …and yet, it doesn’t have to be that way.

It IS possible to create a positive change in your relationship with someone, even though the difficult person is behaving in some socially inappropriate way – harassing, bullying, […]

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How to Overcome Social Anxiety

On November 12, 2012 By

Do you ever feel like this in YOUR life?

• Being embarrassed or looking stupid are among my worst fears,
• I feel nervous talking in a group of people,
• I get very nervous about talking to someone I don’t know very well, even if it’s someone I’d like to talk to, […]

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How to Manage Your Boss

On May 18, 2012 By

Question From a Reader:
I was recently hired by a very nice man to help him streamline his operations and help the company to be more productive. He is the worst offender though, always over explaining and repeating himself. We ask a question and it takes him 30 minutes to get to an answer […]

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Have you ever had the BEST of intentions of addressing an issue with someone and yet, somehow things just went sideways into poor communication and a negative outcome?

If you think about your experiences with people at work or home…

…Have you ever found yourself feeling more and more annoyed and irritated by someone […]

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Difficult People Case Examples

On December 5, 2010 By

Here are just a few examples of rapid positive change with the Wellspring Method…

“This method helped me to put the demands of work into perspective. People have known that I’ve been stressed about the pressures and expectations of my job for awhile now, but the program helped me learn to take things much less personally. It […]

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Why Advice Doesn’t Work

On December 5, 2010 By

Why Advice from Books, Articles, Talks
or Teleseminars Don’t Produce REAL Change

These “information” products focus on giving you advice on dealing with people, but ignore the extreme importance of your inner sensitive spots and stress reactions.

I’ve found that many people just want someone to TELL them how to deal with difficult people. But after […]

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If there is ONE skill in life that guarantees success in life, it’s knowing how to be assertive, confident and effective with people.

The most successful people in business aren’t the ones who possess special skills or knowledge. They’re the ones who can confidently communicate with people and arouse in them a spirit of cooperation […]

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Here’s an important concept… You should not just “read about” dealing with difficult people.

Instead, take it a step further and actually CHANGE the way you feel and react! You’ll find that it makes a HUGE difference.

Here’s why…

By now you’ve probably read about the “Difficult People Tango” that I describe in Chapter […]

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Take this quiz and find out! 1. A boss or supervisor angrily criticizes you in a condescending manner because you didn’t do something “correctly” (i.e., the way they wanted). You realize you could have done the task differently if you had been given the proper instructions and you’re uncomfortable with their angry intimidating approach. How […]

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