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19g. Don't overanalyze.
I want you to realize that this process is very straightforward. You are simply playing out different scenarios in your mind until your inner mind finds a solution. It may be emotionally challenging to picture yourself in a difficult situation when you don't know how to deal with it, but it's not complicated. It's like standing in front of a wall until you think of a way over it. It may be hard, especially when some walls are bigger than others, but it's not complicated.
Some people, I have found, have a tendency to second guess themselves too much, and overanalyze the situation. They try, for example, to understand why the wall came into their life, try to discover the true meaning of the wall, spend too much time in self-doubt, and perhaps focus on reasons why, because of their upbringing, they cannot handle the wall. Sometimes a person can spend too much time doubting whether this program will help, or whether they are doing it correctly, rather than just doing their best while recognizing there is no exact or correct way to resolve an issue. In other words, don't think about it, just do it!
All of these concerns will automatically be solved as you face and deal with the wall (the difficult situation) in your life. Most often, real insight into the nature of problems comes after the problem has been solved. Then, you will look back from a place beyond the wall with genuine understanding.
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