Tap Into Your Personal Power When Dealing with People and Problems...

How to DRAMATICALLY Increase
Your Personal Effectiveness
When Dealing With Difficult People
and Turn Stressful Situations Into
Successful Results!

If You're Ready to Finally Say Goodbye to the Ineffective
Anxiety, Frustration and Stress that is Holding You Back from
TRUE Success with Difficult People and Problems,
This Will Be the Most Important Letter You Ever Read…

Monday 10:35am

From: Mark Lauderdale MD FRCPC

Have you ever had the BEST of intentions when addressing an issue with someone and yet, somehow things just went sideways into a frustrating lack of communication and a poor outcome?

If you think about your experiences with people at work or home...

...have you ever found yourself feeling more and more annoyed and irritated by someone who was being critical or negative to the point that you started to AVOID them... even if avoiding the situation meant that the results were poor, or an issue didn't get resolved, or a relationship suffered?

...have you ever felt controlled by someone and that THEIR wants and needs always seemed to be more important than your own, but you felt helpless to find the right words to say... and maybe you were afraid to say anything at all for fear that they might get upset?

...have you ever felt hurt by someone who didn't accept you or didn't include you in activities or jobs when you SHOULD have been playing a role... and you're worried that they're trying to push you out?

...have you ever felt scared or intimidated by someone's demanding or bullying attitude towards you... and the thought of standing up to them made your emotions go CRAZY and your stomach turn somersaults?

...have you ever LOST IT with someone... maybe they did something that ticked you off, or maybe it was an argument that got you upset... and you let your emotions take over, with the result that you said things you regretted later?

...have you ever needed to address the mistakes someone was making, but your anxiety caused you to procrastinate and avoid until you finally DID say something... and it WASN'T pretty? (the worst part about this one is that you probably beat yourself up for it later on, and felt even WORSE for the next few days because things turned out so bad.)

...have you ever asked someone for advice on how to deal with a difficult person, but then found that the advice somehow didn't seem to FEEL right... or perhaps you DID try their advice but somehow things just didn't go right?

Have you ever had one of these things happen to you?

Well, you're not alone. I've seen hundreds of people in my office in similar situations.

The Big "Catch 22" Mistake We All Make

Most people when confronted by someone who is being difficult or challenging do what most people do.

They see the other person as being the cause of their frustration, anxiety or stress and either avoid them or try to get them to stop being so difficult.

You know what I'm talking about because you've probably done it yourself...

They'd say things like, "That's SO annoying ", or,

"I don't like it when you _________________", or the big kicker,

"If you cared about me, you'd _________________."

They memorize relationship rules or techniques from courses or books, but find that when the other person "pushes their buttons" they end up doing or saying the wrong thing AUTOMATICALLY despite their best intentions!

However, when you express unhappiness or dissatisfaction it often comes across as negativity, criticism or disapproval.

Now, who really WANTS to respond in a positive way to criticism or disapproval? Well, actually... NO ONE!

But it's so hard... because you literally CANNOT see the right way to approach things when you're emotions are blinding you!

All you can think about is getting the other person to change their behavior and stop being so difficult!

So, if you try to get the other person to change their behavior when you're feel stressed or upset, you just end up aggravating them and making things WORSE for yourself... a nice little double bind.

So, what's the answer?

Well, the solution that I came up with is very interesting, not the way you would usually think about dealing with a difficult people problem. And it's something that I think might help YOU deal with YOUR difficult person or situation....

The Insight That Changed
Everything For Me

Several years ago, I was particularly distressed about a relationship issue, which resulted in me being in a very difficult situation.

It was really getting me down, so I started using a particular therapy method on myself that I had learned.

Instead of trying to come up with a technique to get the other person to stop their behavior (in order to make me feel better), I decided to go the OTHER way... I imagined the WORST case scenario and played it out into the future!

At the beginning things felt worse, but THEN... there was a sudden change... a feeling of calm came over me... followed by a feeling of strength welling up from within me... and then I KNEW that I wasn't afraid of the worst case scenario any longer.

I later called this experience "the wellspring phenomenon".

Not being afraid of the worst case scenario allowed me to deal with the situation FAR more effectively after that.

You see, the ONLY power that a difficult person has over you, is to trigger your fears and scare you off... or to trigger your anger and throw you off your game. (By the way, I don't think they do it on purpose, either. I think it's just something they learned to do unconsciously because it works.)

Once I realized that the place to start when facing ANY obstacle or challenge (such as a difficult person or a stressful situation), was WITHIN myself, then everything changed.

Instead of focusing on the other person's difficult behavior, I started focusing on my reactions to their behavior FIRST. Once that was dealt with, the rest was MUCH easier.

This simple shift in thinking changed my focus, took me in a new direction and ultimately led to my success in dealing with people of all kinds... difficult or otherwise.

A Breakthrough In Personal
Effectiveness With People

Once I recognized the importance of the wellspring phenomenon, I wanted to see if I could help my patients experience it for themselves... Maybe it would help them deal with difficult people and stressful situations more effectively too.

So, I decided to see what would happen if I blended together as many personal empowerment and success methods as possible into a structured step-by-step process for dealing with difficult people and stressful situations.

The methods that I used included goal setting, hypnosis techniques, mental rehearsal, motivational techniques, cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), neurolinguistic programming (NLP), eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), stress management, affirmations and several other personal success strategies.

I called it "The Wellspring Method".

Not only did I find that this blend of strategies helped ME deal with my life challenges easier, but when I used it in my office, my clients LOVED the rapid results!

I now use the Wellspring Method in my office every day to help people deal with ALL KINDS of difficult people and situations and to create positive changes in their interpersonal issues much more rapidly than with regular approaches.

Next, I recorded the Wellspring Method onto a set of audio CDs and included several more stress-eliminating and confidence-building techniques simply because we are far more capable of solving problems and taking effective action when we feel strong and confident instead of stressed, anxious or upset.

I refined this system through 58 revisions to include only the most essential and powerful strategies and the most clear and easy-to-follow instructions.

Then... I tested the audio recordings of this guided step-by-step process in a field study with the general public (with people like you) who were facing difficult real life situations...

1. 88% expressed a high degree of satisfaction with the program, 2. 87% expressed a significant or complete resolution of their difficult situation within a few weeks, 3. 88% experienced significantly greater confidence in dealing with their challenging situation or person, and 4. 100% experienced a reduction in stress emotions (anxiety, overwhelm, frustration, stress, etc.).

These results were impressive. Most people were able to deal with a difficult person or clear up a difficult situation in their lives 4 times faster!

Imagine the Feeling of Satisfaction
When When You Handle a Frustrating
Situation Successfully!

 

Personally, I feel a real sense of reward when I see people using my system with such rapid and beneficial results.

"He was able to deal with his coworkers and feel happier in his job..."

Before... “This method helped me to put the demands of work into perspective. People have known that I’ve been stressed about the pressures and expectations of my job for awhile now, but the program helped me learn to take things much less personally.” After using the Wellspring Method... “I was really impressed that my issue could be resolved so quickly! It’s like issues that are stressing you just become non-issues, so you can get on with enjoying life.” - Ron Betuba Customer Care Representative

"She gained the cooperation of her employee without a big confrontation..."
	Before... Jill was the manager of a hair salon and spa who was worrying for weeks about how to confront an employee regarding some inappropriate behavior at work. She didn't quite know how to bring up the issue and was concerned that the person might get upset or even quit! After using the Wellspring Method... Jill remarked, “Using this method really helped me work through the problem without any stress. I feel strong and confident!” ...And she went on to easily obtain her employee's agreement to make the changes she wanted over a casual conversation at lunch! A big confrontation never even took place.” - Jill Neil Victoria, BC

"He was able to create a powerful positive change within his family."
	Before... “Every time that I was about to talk to my son I could feel darkening storm clouds well up within me, dreading what was about to unfold. I knew exactly how I was going to act and exactly how defensive he was going to get. We both seemed to be stuck in this well worn rut.” After using the Wellspring Method... “To my surprise, I found that using the wellspring phrase technique took us in a new direction. Before approaching my son I would refresh my feelings and it felt like someone had flipped a switch. My attitude was now focused on problem solving, I didn’t own his behaviour, I didn’t have an attitude, and I can say that we’ve started a new chapter in our relationship.” - Trevor Barnes Senior Engineering Advisor

The really GREAT thing is that each of these people only took ABOUT ONE HOUR to to create these dramatic changes!

Here Are MORE Examples of Personal
Effectiveness and Positive Change...

 

It’s even more rewarding to hear about how great people FEEL when they RESOLVE their interpersonal problems, such as this teacher who was struggling with a difficult new administrator…
   

“Thank you so much for introducing me to the Wellspring Method. This method of dealing with stress is both enlightening and successful. Listening at my own pace enabled me to rationally understand my stress attacks and to find alternative outcomes. Your program not only gave me a fine sense of self-worth, but also made me feel more confident than I have in a long time.” — Chris Whittaker Teacher

   And look at these remarkable comments...

 

   "This is a GREAT program. You've delivered the information and technique in a way that is simple and easily understood, yet bears the mark of a great deal of experience and expertise. I've been working with it for several weeks now. The first week, very intensely, then more casually. I decided to use it at first just when I was going through a rough patch, and found it VERY effective. Since then I've experimented with integrating a piece of it into a couple of phone sessions, and found it worked for others too. THANK YOU! for sharing it with me!"

- Dr. Alexandra Gayek, Naturopathic Doctor
www.scienceofbeingwell.net

  

"My ex-husband was a negative disapproving person. I used to think 'I’m a loser', but the Wellspring Method has given me the confidence to believe in myself. I can now feel good and enjoy life as I become healthy and financially free. This is THANKS to your program and knowing there are people in this great world of ours, like yourself, who can really make a difference in other peoples' lives." - Betty Gilford Financial Representative

 

Now YOU Can Use This New Technology
to Create the Changes You Want
In YOUR Life!

Because The Wellspring Method has been successful with over 500 people, I decided to reveal to the general public, to people like you, (although professional counselors and life coaches find it useful, too), the exact step-by-step process to rapidly tap into your hidden resources and to powerfully create results you want with people.

In my eBook 'Secrets of Dealing with Difficult People' I did my best to EXPLAIN the Wellspring Method to you... to describe how to shift yourself into an empowered emotional state... but it was a little like trying to explain to someone how to ride a bike...

Hearing ABOUT it is not the same as actually DOING it... You have to get INTO the experience and actually FEEL it in order to really make things happen!

You need an empowering emotional experience to be able to handle difficult people confidently.

Therefore, I recorded the Wellspring Method onto a set of CDs called, the 'Shrink in a Box' Personal Effectiveness System.

In this step-by-step guided audio program, my voice will guide you through the empowering process of the Wellspring Method.

It will open your mind to new possibilities...

It will desensitize your emotional trigger spots...

It will connect you with the hidden power within you...

It will make you strong and confident when dealing with people...

And it will give you the focused mental practice you need to succeed with difficult situations of all kinds.

It's a unique problem-solving tool that you won't find anywhere else.

But The Best Part Is…
You Don’t Even Need To Understand
How All The Principles And Techniques Work... Just Use The System And
Enjoy The Benefits!

If your friend served a dessert you really liked, you might ask for the recipe. Why? Because you know that a recipe is a step-by-step system that will give you exactly the same results.

The Wellspring Method is your recipe for interpersonal success. It has been time-tested in hundreds of real life problem situations and gives you the ability to transform situations with difficult people into successful outcomes.

You'll need this "secret recipe" in order to generate the personal power and the positive changes you want...

Your Confident Positive Approach Will
Powerfully Influence People... And Their
Behavior Towards You Will Shift Like Magic!

You may have been just looking for ADVICE on what to do, but you're going to receive something much more useful, practical and valuable!

When you use this interactive audio method you'll gain the ability to create your own solutions for any difficult situation or person that you encounter in your life!

You see, locked away in compartments inside your mind (called "mental sets") are hidden insights, bits of information, new perspectives and useful abilities that this system helps you access to generate new ideas and effective strategies for your own personal situation.

Even if you're doubtful or feel you've tried everything, you'll be surprised, even shocked, that you didn't think of these ideas before!

It's like discovering that your computer has a program that can do something that you never realized it could do before.

And when you behave in a totally new and genuinely different way with that difficult person in your life, they'll unconsciously respond to that shift.

You'll have new strategies and solutions, or maybe just new ways of talking to them, that will bring bring about real change.

Instead of “Your Buttons Being Pushed”,
“Stressing Out” or “Obsessing” Over Events
in Your Head, You’ll Be Moving Forward
Creating Outcomes You Want

You’ll quickly understand exactly why a particular difficult person is being so “difficult” for you to deal with.

You'll fully appreciate how triggering your “sensitive spots” causes your anger, anxiety and stress to blind you from seeing the right solutions.

You’ll really “get” why being worried or stressed causes you to stay stuck in negative thinking and how it makes you lose your ability to respond effectively. But you’ll also discover exactly what to do about it!

Instead of negative images running inside your head, you’ll know how to quickly reverse your stress reactions, so you can stay focused on achieving your positive goal.

In other words, you’ll have the ability get your head straight first before you say or do things you may regret later!

It's a good feeling knowing that you can handle difficult people and situations so you can get on with enjoying life.

 

Here Are Some of the Benefits You'll

Experience With This Unique Program

 

Here's how my 'Shrink in a Box' Personal Effectiveness System can help you solve problems, clear up stress and put the power into your plans:

Learn How to Channel Your Subconscious Mind's Amazing Power to Create Positive Change
If you're feeling frustrated or stressed about the difficult circumstances or an obstacle in your life, then the first CD will help to inspire and motivate you!   In CD1 - Opening the Door to Well-Being and Success, you'll discover:

	•	Real life stories of the "Wellspring Phenomenon" - stories of real people who tapped into hidden power, profound wisdom and brilliant creativity to achieve amazing results under difficult circumstances,
	•	The single most IMPORTANT thing to do when you are faced with an obstacle (a stressful situation) in your life,
	•	How the stress emotions interfere with your effectiveness in everything you do - even your ability to clear up the problems in your life that are causing your stress!
	•	The amazing story of the man who fell off the ferry and how he overcame his panic to survive in the ocean without a life jacket for over 8 hours!
	•	The fascinating experimental research that reveals how stress emotions actually impair your ability to think constructively and cause you to lose abilities that you had learned previously... and what you can do about it!
	•	How your mind has the remarkable ability to break out of its old pattern of thinking into brilliant creativity and personal power,
	•	The unusual phenomenon of age-progression hypnosis - going forward in time into your future - and how it can profoundly influence the way you think NOW,
	•	The 4 basic steps required to achieve a positive outcome with ANY stressful situation in your life!
You'll feel inspired to go to work on your stressful situation or challenge -- without that burdened feeling -- after you've listened to this recording!

Shift Out of Anger, Anxiety and Stress into Strength and Confidence When Dealing with Difficult People and Stressful Situations!
If you feel frustrated, overwhelmed or unsure of how to deal with a stressful situation or a difficult person, I'll take you through the exact steps to resolve your specific problem effectively and create the results you want!
With CD2 - Clearing the Way to Well-Being and Success: The Wellspring Method Problem Solver, you'll experience a powerful combination of techniques designed to help you clear up stress and create a positive change in your difficult life situation quickly and effectively. You will:
	•	Target your goal ...the positive change you want in your situation ...and phrase it the right way to activate your subconscious mind,
	•	Learn how to measure your level of stress (your anxiety, anger, frustration, overwhelm, etc.) about the difficulty you're facing,
	•	Develop your inner road map for creating a positive change in your personal situation,
	•	Program yourself for success! Negative self-talk will become a thing of the past once you learn these powerful affirmations and phrases.
	•	Discover the magic of desensitization... You'll actually be able to FEEL your emotional stress release as you go through the steps! And as you use the method multiple times, it changes you into a more proactive, positive-minded, confident person!
	•	Learn how to uncover the perfect opportunity within every problem situation. Experience how "reframing" can change your perceptions and generate valuable new solutions,
	•	See how change occurs BEST from the inside out. I'll help you mentally rehearse scenarios with difficult people to eliminate your stress in this simple, yet powerful, way.
	•	Overcome seemingly impossible problems by breaking them down into bite-size manageable chunks,
	•	Discover how your mind has the ability to reach deep within, break out of its normal way of thinking, and tap into profound strength and brilliant creativity ...in short, its greater potential - experience the wellspring phenomenon for yourself!
	•	This CD can be used to deal with a host of problem situations- resolve problems at home or work, eliminate anxieties, fears and procrastination, deal with difficult people, annoyances, frustrations and stressors of all kinds,
	•	Generate intense motivation, creative solutions and power you never knew you had!
Gain a powerful problem-solving tool that can give you "the right stuff" to succeed throughout your life,

Learn How to Powerfully Create the Results You Want
This CD helps you become clear about the future you want... because it’s not going to happen by accident! With CD3 - Stepping Into Well-Being and Success: Future Visioning, you'll learn:
	•	How to target your goal - the positive change you truly desire in your life - and how to phrase it the right way to activate your subconscious mind,
	•	How to develop your inner road map for achieving the changes you want and your future success,
	•	A simple method for stepping into your greater self that generates possibility thinking and opens doors inside your mind,
	•	The relaxing, yet powerful, effect of listening to the ocean waves as you stroll along the beach reflecting upon the way you'd like things to be... in this rejuvenating guided meditation,
	•	A strategy for breaking larger life goals into manageable sub-goals,
	•	My voice will guide you as you envision things so clearly that it feels like you're stepping into and actually experiencing the future you desire... and how this activates your mind at a much deeper level than simple goal-setting,
	•	How to identify anxiety-producing, frustrating or stressful obstacles that are getting in the way of your progress... Then I'll show you what to do about them,
	•	A weekly procedure for identifying the single most important next step for the coming week that will have the biggest positive effect towards achieving the positive results you want.
Once you've stepped into the future you desire and created your inner roadmap for success, the people, events and opportunities you need will be drawn towards you like a magnet!

"Shrink in a Box" Also Comes With This Informative Resource Manual
The Resource Manual includes:
	•	A detailed description of how the program works,
	•	Flow diagrams so you can see a visual overview of the Wellspring Method process,
	•	Guidelines to help you get the most out of your experience,
	•	An extensive Help Section with Frequently Asked Questions to provide you with additional information and examples for all of your questions.

 

“The Next Time You're Dealing With a

Difficult Person Would You Rather

Feel Frustrated and Stressed...

or Strong and Confident?”

 

I suggest to you that it's NOT A GOOD IDEA to spend even one more day with the stress of your difficult situation hanging over you because frustration and stress cause you to DO things that you regret later!

Think of the next time you're dealing with a difficult person...

Do you think that you'll be more successful dealing with the situation feeling stressed and upset ...or calm and confident?

Ok, now here's the problem with other books and programs...

It's very difficult to change your emotional reactions and develop the calmness and confidence you need by simply reading or hearing information!

Many years of experience have taught me that you need MORE than information alone to cope with stressful situations effectively. You need an experience that changes you emotionally ...one that gives you the strength to succeed!

What would that be worth to you?

 

In THIS program...

		You won't pay for a stress management or interpersonal relations course that typically offers general principles and general advice and would cost you $100 to $500...
		And you won't need to pay a professional coach or counselor $100 to $200 per hour! to help you deal with your stressful situation...
		No, you'll pay only $79! (ON SALE NOW! - reg $149) Use this interpersonal success system as many times as you want to create positive changes for even less than the price of a SINGLE coaching session!

Furthermore, have you considered how much it will cost you if your difficult situation STAYS unresolved?

...Procrastination, missed opportunities, words or actions you regret, worsening conflict, impulsive decisions,relationship breakdowns, medications, alcohol, lack of sleep, missed days at work, lack of productivity, stupid mistakes, legal appeals, counseling, etc, etc...

  
Fear, anger, and stress are expensive emotions! They cost you hundreds of dollars as they steal your valuable time, energy and life opportunities.

  

By gaining the ability to be strong and confident when dealing with difficult people and to create the positive results you want in stressful situations, this system could be worth hundreds, or even thousands of dollars to you as you enhance your personal success week after week!

This could prove to be one of the smartest and most VALUABLE investments you make in your interpersonal skills and self-confidence!

You'll Also Receive These Bonuses For FREE!

5 Free Special Reports: Once you start to understand how to deal with difficult people better and start using these strategies, it's important to be able to set and achieve your goals effectively.

That's where these Special Reports come into play. They'll help you stay on track through the daily struggles to achieve lasting personal success at home and work.

You'll receive:

	Special Report #1
		The Critical First Step In Creating Change We all create our futures from our inner reality first - for better or worse. Discover the way to open your mind to exciting new goals and envision possibilities that draw you forward like a magnet. ($9.95 value)
	Special Report #2
		How To Overcome Obstacles Did you know that there's a guy in the Guinness World Book of Records who ate a bicycle? The point is that ANY obstacle can be overcome by breaking the problem down into small manageable chunks. Learn how to apply this simple secret to conquer the Mt. Everest in your life. ($9.95 value)
	Special Report #3
		How To Stay Committed To Your Goals And Achieve Success Whatever you focus upon you will attract into your life. Learn about the Law of Attraction and discover the powerful technique used by top Olympic athletes to become totally focused and committed to your goals. ($9.95 value)
	Special Report #4
		How To Tap Into The Hidden Power Within You Discover the amazing secret of tapping into the power within. Imagine breaking out of your normal way of thinking and tapping into profound strength and brilliant creativity ...in short, your greater potential! ($9.95 value)
	Special Report #5
		How to Transform Your Stress into Personal Effectiveness Uncover the one thing in life that’s holding you back that will tie all of these principles together and will help you focus on what is important. Discover this powerful way to create your life from the inside out! ($9.95 value)

This Series of Special Reports, "Five Powerful Principles for Personal Success", will teach you how to stay on track to achieve the ongoing personal success you want at home and at work. (Total Value $49, Yours FREE!)

And You'll Also Receive These Free Gifts!

Bonus #6 The Express Version CD Once you've used the program a few times, this streamlined version of the Wellspring Method with fewer instructions will help you create the positive changes you want even faster and more efficiently! ($49 value)

  

Bonus #7 Video Demonstration of the Wellspring Method This live unrehearsed video demonstrates how the Wellspring Method can help you create the positive change you want in your life. Watch as Jill solves a problem with her employees to create a more harmonious workplace in just one hour! ($29 value)

Total value of all bonuses: $127

 

Your 1-Year Money Back Guarantee You have a 100% satisfaction guarantee - if you're not completely happy with your purchase for ANY reason, simply contact us. You'll receive a FULL REFUND with no questions asked. This is truly a 100% risk- free offer.

  

  

This Success-Generating Tool Helps You Create Results You Truly Want!

Get the Guided Problem-Solving System for Dealing with the People, Problems and Stress in Your Life! • Rapidly replace fear, anxiety and    stress with strength and confidence, • Deal with people in your workplace or    community effectively, • Handle pressures and problems at work    or home confidently, • Turn anger, frustration and stress into    effective problem-solving and    forward progress,   • De-activate your emotional triggers so   that NO ONE can “push your buttons”, • Create dramatic positive changes in    your relationships,    • Be more effective in creating the    results YOU want,   • Supercharge your ability to achieve    your personal goals,

  

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A final comment... If you're thinking about PUTTING OFF your decision to order, consider this... The difficult people in your life AREN'T going to WAIT for YOU. They will continue being difficult whether you're ready or not!

So, if you're not ready to order right now... then, at least come up with a constructive plan for your situation before you leave this page... At least then you will have GAINED SOMETHING from the time you spent here!

However, if you decide to JOIN ME I'll be glad to help you create the positive results you want with my 'Shrink in a Box' Personal Effectiveness System.